For Men These will make women not want to have sex with you

Avoid doing this if you want to be someone she continues to take her clothes off for.

Being great in bed is not just about inexperience, it is also about doing the right things and avoiding the wrong ones. Here are things you should stop doing now if you want her to keep coming back to you for more bedroom action.

1. Over-thrusting: Yes, women do not want a "one-minute' man, but this does not mean you should keep thrusting for hours. Your partner can get bored if you keep going on and on, causing your sexual 'prowess' to be pointless. If you can last for hours, make sure you're checking in to see if she's still enthusiastic.

2. Bad Fingering: The vagina is a relatively nerve-free region, except for the area near the opening and the famed "G spot," so poking away limply isn't going to blow her socks off. The advantage of a finger is that they can bend to hit areas that penises can't access, so find those areas of her vagina that are most responsive and apply deliberate, sustained pressure.

3. Changing positions too much: Porn seems to be to blame for giving men the idea that they need to change positions every couple of minutes. There's a reason that this is necessary in porn — watching actors have sex in the same position gets dull quickly and makes for bad TV — but for actual, real-life sex, there's no need for the same high-frequency change ups. If a woman is in ecstasy in the position you're in, keep going!

4. Mishandling of the clit: Yes,  the clitoris is where the magic happens. It's also a HIGHLY SENSITIVE collection of nerve endings, so treat it gently — otherwise the only thing you'll achieve is numbing it. Orgasms generally take women some time to achieve too, so don't rub the clit expectantly for two minutes then ask expectantly whether she came.

5. Tonguing her ear: The ear area can be erotic: whispered dirty talk sends plenty of women wild, and licking or chewing on the lobe is also widely agreeable. But the surprisingly common act of sticking your entire tongue into the actual ear canal? No. Hearing the slopping of a tongue magnified 1,000 times is not erotic.